This morning as I sat in mass, I noticed four sets of parents that I recognized because their kids had gone to school with our kids. I knew one couple because their son and our oldest son had gone to kindergarten together. It gave me a warm feeling seeing those parents sitting in front […]
This past week Nashville’s mayor, Megan Barry lost her son to a drug overdose. Just typing that sentence takes my breath away. Not because I knew the mayor or her son, but because I know that it could have been me. I’ve had friends and family members who have lost children to this […]
My mother used to tell me that we don’t plant trees for ourselves. They are a gift that we leave for future generations. When I posted my last blog, my sister made a comment that encouraged me to keep writing. She mentioned that we never know who we might encourage or inspire and […]
Last year, I completed a manuscript that I’d been working on for a very long time. There was some initial interest, but it ended with a ‘no, thank you’. So, I did what all respectable southern women do…I took to my bed. I’m not sure if you know what that means and perhaps it […]
Paradox is hard to miss here. It forces me to pay attention. Modern high-end resorts sit next to the ravages that Ivan left behind back in 2004. The lovely beaches, I expected. The flood of childhood memories was a surprise. Chickens are everywhere. They announce the sunrise to all who attempt to sleep past the day’s arrival. […]
“You are getting very sleepy…” A long chain holding a pendulum swings back and fourth. Someone speaks in slow, monotone sentences, inducing a “coma-esque” state in the person (subject) that sits watching and listening. The subject is unaware of the present moment, but can go back in time and recover memories that were either stuffed , were […]
We all build walls. Even the politicians talk about building walls. We think that they will protect us. But do they? Janie had built some pretty impressive walls. I did not know if I could scale the walls that she had erected. She was so hidden away. The next time that I met her was in […]
The first time that I saw Janie, she sat as far into the corner as she could. She was pleasant and silent. If asked a question, she was able to respond in three words or less. It was impressive. I was facilitating an expressive/creative writing class at the county jail. It was the smallest class […]
The author, psychologist and theologian, John Bradshaw says that the first three steps of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) restore order between me and God. The second set of steps restore order within me, the third set of steps restore order between me and my family and the final three steps restore order between me and the world. This perspective made […]
I became a mother on Mother’s day, twenty-seven years ago. My son came into this world at eight and one half pounds, twenty-one inches long. Little did I know or understand the weight of a new life. But, from those early days, when I went to his crib to be sure that he was still breathing till the time that I […]